Soul Line Dancing: MJ Tribute 9/3/09

Just so you don’t miss it (sorry for the late notice):

Tina B. & Sacramento Soul Line Dancers

Presents Thursday Night soul Line Dancing Class

A tribute to King of Pop

When: Thursday September 3 2009 FREE ADMISSION

Where: Touch of Class * 4217 Stockton Blvd. Sacramento, CA 95820

Time: 6:30 PM – Until (Must be 21 & Over)…RAFFLE, RAFFLE

Come and learn the Newest Soul Line dances:

Michael Jackson Shuffle* Funky Salsa * Dangerous *

All Aboard * Carmel Cha Cha and the JD Shuffle (wear you favorite Michael Jackson outfit)

How the Wall Street Meltdown Happened

Most of us are still mystified about how our economy collapsed to violently last year, its force bringing down huge, steadfast, centuries-old companies like Lehman Brothers and General Motors. If you’re one of us, check out this “60 Minutes” rerun from last year, which explains what Warren Buffet called “financial weapons of mass destruction” – credit-default swaps – as clearly as anyone can.

Click to watch “60 Minutes” episode: “Financial WMDs.”

RIP Ted Kennedy

I’m very sad to lose Sen. Ted Kennedy. I wish I lived in the Boston area; I’d find a way to see him laid at rest. For all his faults, he really cared about everyday people, spoke on our behalf so eloquently in the Kennedy way, and knew how to get legislation passed in the most challenging political environments.

Most of all, he believed in peace and justice, and didn’t hesitate to say so. So many politicians are afraid to do so these days, leaving the field wide open for the propagandists and sabotagers, McCarthyites of our day who don’t seem to care at all about the democratic process unless it goes their way.

“For all those whose cares have been our concern, the work goes on, the cause endures, the hope still lives, and the dream shall never die.” — Senator Ted Kennedy, 1932-2009

RIP Ted Kennedy.

Sen. Ted Kennedy in 1974

Sen. Ted Kennedy in 1974. Photo from the Oakland Tribune.

In this 1974 photo, from the Oakland Tribune, a young Sen. Ted Kennedy campaigns for California Democratic candidates George Norris and March Fong Eu.

Back to Soul Line Dancing!

Between being sick and my new job, it’s taken another month to really get back into the swing of the Soul Line Dancing class – now run by Tina B. Tonight’s energy level was as high as it’s ever been, with lots of people, lots of fun, and a great workout! We started practicing for the big Michael Jackson tribute class next week, with dancing to nothing but MJ’s music. Better get my glitter glove ready!

Meanwhile, I can always count on my friends Shana and husband Charles to be there every single week. It was Shana, in fact, who said, with her bright, infectious smile, “It’s so much fun!” at the Juneteenth Festival, when I asked if anyone could come, where it was, how much it cost. She is an incredible dancer, so light on her feet you wouldn’t know they touched the floor – and Charles is no slouch himself! And they are both as sweet as sweet-potato pie!

Here they are, Charles and Shana (apologies for the blurry photography!):

shana-charles

Charles and Shana

Now I’m thinking of learning one of the simpler dances well enough to teach it at my 40th high school reunion in October! I told Shana that in our day, we listened to Aretha Franklin, and she thinks I could pull it off. I just have to find a cha-cha beat in one of Aretha’s many gold-standard songs from back in the day.

And so I came home, looked up Aretha on the iTunes store, and found Until You Come Back to Me – one of my favorites, with a nice, slow cha-cha rhythm. Perfect!

Advice from Foreclosure Ground Zero

Foreclosure sign

Foreclosure sign

I am not a homeowner – my debt came from student loans, not a mortgage – but I just watched a local PBS-produced program offering advice to homeowners who are facing foreclosure. But with half of my student loans coming from a professional degree I can no longer use, I can relate to those who are suffering right now under the weight of a mortgage they can’t afford, and can’t get rid of. And I can relate to those sufferers who desperately want to keep their homes.

Here’s the Web site for the show, with in-depth interviews on video and in words, plus lots of resources:
KVIE Channel 6: Facing the Mortgage Crisis

Many of the resources are local to the Sacramento/Stockton area  - Stockton being the #5 hardest hit area in the country, down from #1 last year – but some might be a local branch of a national organization. (There is also a link to HUD’s Guide to Avoiding Foreclosure, which I have posted here before.)

The big lesson: Do not pay someone who says they can lower your mortgage payment! Most likely, it’s a scam. Even if the company legitimate, they can’t and won’t offer any guarantees that your lender will agree to a modification at all, much less at a payment you can afford.

The next biggest lesson: Don’t wait! As soon as you realize you’re in trouble, get help! Above all – scary as it is – open your mail and pay attention to all notices related to your mortgage.

The bad news: Hardly any lenders or servicers are willing to modify mortgages to more affordable payments, even though many mortgages are for much more than the homes are now worth. The “why” of that was not made clear, but I have read elsewhere that many servicers are actually paid more if they collect on ongoing delinquent loans than they would if they modified the loan. It makes no sense, but for now, that’s the way it is.

The good news: There are a lot of trustworthy, nonprofit organizations who are there to help you get through the bureaucratic maze.

So yourself together, gather your paperwork, and take action! And if you aren’t in crisis but you know someone who is, help as much as you possibly can, even if all you can give is moral support and a shoulder to cry on. Don’t let them suffer alone, in isolation. This is what it means to help each other through this crisis. It’s the only way we’re going to get through it.

And if you aren’t touched personally by the foreclosure crisis, work for political change, by advocating and campaigning to force lenders to modify troubled loans, for all borrowers whose incomes could manage the new payments, whenever the cost of modifying would be the same or less than foreclosing. And make them fixed-interest loans!

It should be as simple as that.

First Week O-K!

By this morning, I was telling people that I liked my new job just fine – though I’ve only said about five words to my boss all week! Then again, maybe that’s the secret to a great start: never seeing your boss.

But seriously, folks, it has been a good week. A short week due to Furlough Fridays (the first three Fridays each month), but so far, so good. There was little I couldn’t handle, I got plenty of help when I needed it, and my boss actually is really nice – when she comes up for air between back-to-back meetings. Of the dozen or so people in our office, and the half-dozen or more in other offices that we work closely with, I haven’t met a single truly difficult person yet. Maybe I’m not looking, or maybe I’m too new, but I think that’s an excellent sign.

It’s a very busy, fast-paced office too, and I know that I will be as swamped as my trainer is once she’s transferred all of my duties to me.  But hopefully, by then I’ll have systems in place – or plans for them – that will keep things manageable.

I waited till the second day, to test the waters first, but then I brought out inexpensive but healthy (or not unhealthy) snacks to share with all. I think it set a good tone, started a few conversations, and started the bonding process.

One strategy turned out to have bonus benefits. Our office is working on a large, multiyear project, and it operates much like a startup company, with a recent move to larger offices, new staff coming on board weekly, and the project team made up of state employees, county people, and consultants from several firms.

With staff changing so often and coming from so many different places, we didn’t have an up-to-date staff list. Complicating matters, our department-wide electronic address book requires us to know the person’s last name to look up a phone number or an email address. Until I could get my own address book set up, my own way, I was going to get bogged down trying to reach people quickly in my own office.

So I decided to collect business cards from everyone – state, county, and contractors. Not only was it a help when an urgent matter came up, it turned out to be a great way to get to know people. One contractor spends an hour each way commuting to Sacramento from the Bay Area. A staff lawyer swims for an hour or two after work several times a week. And the executive who came on board when I did has two full-time jobs until they can fill his other position. Try and get a piece of his time!

And I got connected with the grapevine. Not the gossip grapevine – I want to stay away from that, for a long while – but the cultural grapevine. There’s a coffee club, and a water-purifier club. Every day, a staff attorney brings in the overflow from her tomato garden to share  with everyone – take as much as you like (and I did – I love tomatoes!). I took a walking break with a co-worker who knows every hidden path in the area. Who knew a corporate business park, with acres of parking lots, could be so “green”?

A good week, but an exhausting one. I’m back to my volunteer internship for this month’s Furlough Fridays, but then I’ll take a break in September. I’ll need it!

First Day O-K!

Seal of the State of California

Seal of the State of California

I am happy to say I am now, officially, a state worker.

My first-day jitters disappeared the moment I entered the office. There is such a thing as being over-prepared, my job coach said, but I think I was “just-right” prepared. The first days and weeks are absolutely critical in setting the tone for relationships with your boss and colleagues.

So I did a lot of research on admin assisting – a new role for me – on the state office I’ll be working for, and even on my new boss (hey, they have our resumes; why not see something of theirs, by doing a simple Web search?). I got advice from my job coach and an internship colleague about a possible communications glitch with my new boss (which turned out to be nothing). I found advice online for starting a new job, for handling difficult people, you name it (see links below). Before I left this morning, I read once more the encouraging pep talks from close friends.

I felt “just-right” ready when I left for work this morning. It was a busy day, with paperwork, three meetings, setting up my computer, and arranging my desk. The HR and tech people had already set up my computer log-in, email account, and phone number – a first.

And they say the State of California is bureaucratic, ha!

My boss wasn’t available to meet with me today, but she warmly welcomed me and another new (transfer) employee at the morning staff meeting – with cake! At the end of the third meeting – at the end of the day – I made a point of approaching her (she is very approachable) and thanking her for the morning welcome and for the job. We had a nice little chat as we walked out of the conference room; she said she’d meet with me tomorrow to go over my duties, and gave me a few tips for survival too.

The only downside is the salary. After the 14% cut from three furlough days, taxes, and deductions for benefits, retirement, and union dues, my take-home is fully $400 less than I was getting on unemployment – because even before any deductions, I’ve taken a 36% pay cut to work for the state!

Still, I’m glad to have a state job, especially at my age. This morning’s New York Times had yet more evidence of how bleak the landscape is when you find yourself unemployed and you’re over 50.

Here are a few of the admin links I found:

Starting a New Job, from About.com

Your Office Coach: The next best thing to paying for a personal job coach.

Admin Chronicles Blog: Where I found out about…

DeskDemon.com: Forums, tips, tools, you name it

And, last but not least, Laughing All the Way to Work: A Survival Blog for Today’s Administrative Assistant

Enjoy!

IGAJ!! (I Got a Job!!)

Woooooo-hoooooo! After a very dry year – and a very dry decade – I got and accepted a permanent, full-time state job at decent pay (still “underwater,” but not toooo far underwater), for what feels like a good office with good people doing interesting work.

So, you might ask (my job-search coach did!), what was different this time? Why, after so many months of one interview a month, if that, for much worse jobs at much lower pay, why did you get a job offer now? What did you do differently?

“Uh,” I said to my coach, so very articulately, “I hired you?”

Because, really, I hadn’t done anything differently, to speak of. And yet, last week was different.

I mean, I got called to interview for three different jobs in one week – two of them, for good jobs – when the norm was one a month, for a lousy job, if I was lucky. Every time I looked at any job listings, anywhere – for the state, for Craigslist, online, anywhere – I felt like I was witnessing the Incredible Shrinking Job Market. Being in the midst of a budget meltdown, more and more California state jobs, if even if they were exceptions to the hiring freeze, were listed as intermittent (read: on call) and/or limited term (like it sounds: temporary).

For this good job, on Monday I returned home from the first interview to find a message inviting me to a second interview, for Wednesday. On Thursday, my contact for that job had called – and reached – all three of my references – an excellent sign. On Friday the office was closed for a furlough day (the weekend was verrrry long for me). Today, when I got home from my state internship at 12:30, there was no message. I was actually beginning to doubt that I would get the job after all.

But then, just as I was about to leave for an interview for the third (much, much worse) job, the call came with the offer. Needless to say, I canceled the interview. (The interviewer for the second of the three jobs, meanwhile, called today to say I was “overqualified” – code for “too old.” Not for the state, thank you very much!)

So, luck was definitely a major part of this very different week, with the very happy ending (and beginning).

But my coach was also right: I had done some new things (besides hiring him) that definitely helped me land this job:

  • The state internship was a huge factor, in four ways:
    • It showed my commitment to state work.
    • It gave me a new reference, who could speak to my ability to “get along” in a state bureaucracy.
    • It gave me a new confidence in myself and in my skills.
    • It gave me insider information for my target job (a professional-level state job), from colleagues who were more than happy to advise and help me.
  • My job-search coach was a big confidence builder (thank you, Cliff!), both in his advice and just being there; plus, hiring him reflected a new determination on my part, a last big push to get the job I wanted, before my unemployment ran out early next year.
  • I had two other great references, who stuck with me for four long years!
  • I took advice from colleagues at the state internship, to start in a job class a step lower than my target job, which this is, and then seek ways to move up later – something that’s much easier once you’re a state worker to begin with.
  • I did all the right things, from having good, relevant, concise examples to standard interview questions, to sending thank-you emails immediately (always ask for full names and email addresses of interviewers, and briefly reiterate what you can do for them), to giving my references a heads-up on the type of job and the things the interviewers emphasized, so they could emphasize the same things.
  • My wide-ranging background and skills were a good fit, so much so that the hiring manager was willing to overlook my choppy resume in the last ten years (from editor to Web manager to teacher to nonprofit fundraising associate to…state worker??), just as the internship interviewers were.
  • And here’s how luck played a part:
    • The fact that I was not a state worker, and that I was used to meeting deadlines, was a plus in this case – this office is not weighed down by bureaucracy – but only together with the commitment to state work I displayed by committing to the state internship.
    • They were on a fast track to hire someone quickly, as you could tell by the week’s time from first interview to job offer.
    • On the org chart, this office is close the head of the entire agency, which likely explains the exemptions they’re getting from the hiring freeze (to hire me along with a half-dozen others), as well as the fast-paced work environment.
    • The work, the boss, the “mission,” the colleagues all felt comfortable to me.
    • There were no “gotchas” – no traveling, no chain to my desk, etc. – I’d have a hard time living with, because of health issues.

Oh, and one more bit of luck: Before my first interview last Monday, I stopped in at Ki Gifts, purposely for good luck. Why? Because the first time I stopped in, I was on my way to the interview for the state internship. When I went back after the interview, Keith, the owner, said that lots of people had done just what I had done – stopped in before and after a job interview – and had always gotten the job.

Well, I did get that “job” – the internship. And now I got this job. I’ll have to stop in tomorrow and let him know. He’ll be happy and astounded for me. “Ki” means “life.” We all can use a bit of “life” before our job interviews!

Salt Water: The Miracle Drug!

Salt, the Wonder Drug

Salt, the Wonder Drug

Still sick with a cold, flu, whatever, which kept morphing into different symptoms, and I’ve been relying on salt water to keep it at bay. It’s still around, in the form of a cough now, and I think it’s mixing with my bad allergies.

Remember, I have no insurance, so I have no doctor, and I don’t want to risk a doctor’s bill plus lab fees plus medication costs of $100 – or much, much more – especially if I can heal myself on my own.

First, I had body aches, headache, vague nausea, a slight fever, a slight cough, and congestion. So I took a Friday off and spent the next three days doing not much more than four things: (1) sleeping; (2) humidifying every three hours (breathing in hot steam from a pot of boiled water, with a towel over my head); (3) nasal cleansing twice a day (using a neti pot and salt water); and (4) taking natural cough syrup every two hours.

All but the cough and congestion went away, but then I worked too much – and in cold air conditioning at the office – and after another week I got worse, with possible infection moving into my throat, ear, and eye.

So I stayed off work Monday. What to do about my sore throat? Of course! Gargle with salt water! And for my budding earache: dip half a cotton ball in salt water and put it in my ear every so often.

Then I remembered that as a kid, I would constantly fall and scrape my knees and elbows, and every time they would get infected and ooze pus. After a few days of a salt-water compress or soaking, the infection would disappear.

My mother has since told me that when my sister was a baby and had an operation on her head, the doctor recommended salt-water bandages. They worked great, and she used them on our scrapes ever since. It might sound like it hurts like crazy – “pouring salt in the wound” – but, really, it just stings a bit at first and then it doesn’t hurt at all.

I do prefer the pure sea salt, though, without the iodine routinely added to table salt.

But back to my symptoms. What about my eyes? Well, isn’t there such a thing as over-the-counter saline solution for tired eyes? And what is saline solution but – you guessed it – salt water! So instead of spending five bucks for something that’s virtually free, I dipped a paper towel in salt water and put it over my eyes for 10-15 minutes a couple of times a day.

After two days of salt water treatments, all three symptoms are gone!

Now, if only salt water could help with the severe allergies and asthma-like cough that are keeping me up at night, I’d be good as new – enough to get back to Soul Line Dancing!

California Has (an Ugly) New Budget

It’s a sad day in California, my home state, now that the budget crisis has been settled – at great cost to all, including local governments, education, state workers, children’s health care, home health care, and much, much more. Time to get real about reforming the patently unfair, infinitely inheritable ripoff called Prop. 13. See http://caltaxreform.org/?p=5 and http://www.closetheloophole.com.

I am sick and tired of selfish, greedy people (my dear father among them, I’m sorry to say) giving a reflexive “thumbs down” to any hint of tax increases, aka new revenue – as long as it doesn’t affect them. Little did my father know – because he didn’t care to know anything beyond “no new taxes” – that he and his wife’s comfy teachers’ retirement plans were on the table at one point.

And I wonder how he would feel if he were in my shoes: hoping to get a state job below my skill level, so I can start earning just a little bit of his nice retirement plan – only to discover I have to take a 15 percent pay cut for the next year on top of the below-market starting pay (when you hear “three furlough days a month through June 2010,” that’s how it translates on the paycheck – and, yes, the state can do that). And how would he like it if he were a state worker right now and had to take that 15 percent hit? Who among us can afford that?

We don’t yet know how far-reaching the cuts in the new budget will be, but with $2 billion coming out of local property taxes – yes, the state can do that too – and a billion or two more coming from local school budgets, we will feel it there for sure.